認識我的人多知道我的個性. 要求很高, 喜歡有付出就有結果, 喜歡可預期性, 不喜歡不可控制的東西, 不準備周詳不輕易嘗試. 個性裡有很重的唸工程的人多半都有的古板和嚴謹.
所以帶娃這件事, 對別的媽咪來說, 是再自然不過的一件事, 餵飽娃, 讓他睡好覺, 糊裡糊塗的娃也就長大了. 可是對我來說, 問題大了. 帶娃怎麼準備呢?
My Two Little Princess
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Friday, March 27, 2009
地上的娃娃想媽媽
經過一晚折騰才知道原來媽媽離家回去上班對娃是件大事.
昨晚娃睡得好淺, 兩個半小時哭一次, 早上六點多就哭醒了. 不得已只好把他抱到我們房間大床, 好不容易六點五十又把他搖睡了睡到七點半.
雖然發生在晴身上不多, 但夜哭不是大事. 令我擔心或有點驚訝的是, 晴晚上11點半居然在夢中抽泣, 還是很悲傷那種, 不知道夢到什麽傷心的事了, 我怎麽拍他就是沒法從夢裏跳脫, 一個小可憐樣. 不知道是不是夢到媽媽不見了.
今天早上要出門, 晴看到我離開, 就又開始要哭要哭的, 我進進出出兩三次, 一進門她就好了, 一出門他又要哭了. 不得已, 只得留她在門後, 咬牙不回頭的走了.
我一早上在公司想她, 看東西都沒法專心. 在網上找到一直想找的魯冰花片段
還有, 要聽魯冰花整首歌的請看這
昨晚娃睡得好淺, 兩個半小時哭一次, 早上六點多就哭醒了. 不得已只好把他抱到我們房間大床, 好不容易六點五十又把他搖睡了睡到七點半.
雖然發生在晴身上不多, 但夜哭不是大事. 令我擔心或有點驚訝的是, 晴晚上11點半居然在夢中抽泣, 還是很悲傷那種, 不知道夢到什麽傷心的事了, 我怎麽拍他就是沒法從夢裏跳脫, 一個小可憐樣. 不知道是不是夢到媽媽不見了.
今天早上要出門, 晴看到我離開, 就又開始要哭要哭的, 我進進出出兩三次, 一進門她就好了, 一出門他又要哭了. 不得已, 只得留她在門後, 咬牙不回頭的走了.
我一早上在公司想她, 看東西都沒法專心. 在網上找到一直想找的魯冰花片段
還有, 要聽魯冰花整首歌的請看這
Thursday, March 26, 2009
娃媽回去上班的第一天
一切都挺順利的, 東西好像還沒有忘得徹底, 還好. 跟老闆談談, 要作的新的 project 還挺有意思的, 高興.
中午回家吃飯, 跟父女聚聚, 公司離家近就是這點好. 娃爸看我回家鬆了一口氣, 終於了解有人換手是多麼的寶貴.
晚上五點打電話回家, 娃爸問我什麼時候到家, 要我趕快回去幫忙, 因為他自己已經累癱了, 娃不聽他話不乖: 奶不愛吃, 要一直換玩具才勉強吃吃; 幫她擠的梨汁還沒喝呢就被她小手一揮打翻了, 只好給瓶裝果汁; 幫她換尿布嘛, 一開尿布馬上一泡尿迎面而來, 整個床啊衣服都被尿濕了, 只好全部換; 不愛nap, 下午應該要兩小時的nap只睡了30分鐘就開始high.
我五點五十到家一打開門娃就跟我燦爛的笑, 娃爸馬上把娃塞給我...說 she's all yours. 上班還是比帶孩子輕鬆的多. :)
中午回家吃飯, 跟父女聚聚, 公司離家近就是這點好. 娃爸看我回家鬆了一口氣, 終於了解有人換手是多麼的寶貴.
晚上五點打電話回家, 娃爸問我什麼時候到家, 要我趕快回去幫忙, 因為他自己已經累癱了, 娃不聽他話不乖: 奶不愛吃, 要一直換玩具才勉強吃吃; 幫她擠的梨汁還沒喝呢就被她小手一揮打翻了, 只好給瓶裝果汁; 幫她換尿布嘛, 一開尿布馬上一泡尿迎面而來, 整個床啊衣服都被尿濕了, 只好全部換; 不愛nap, 下午應該要兩小時的nap只睡了30分鐘就開始high.
我五點五十到家一打開門娃就跟我燦爛的笑, 娃爸馬上把娃塞給我...說 she's all yours. 上班還是比帶孩子輕鬆的多. :)
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
捨不得妳
明天才要上班, 可是現在已經開始想娃了.
剛剛餵奶時給她唱了歌, 吃完抱她抱了好久, 捨不得放下, 一直跟她說媽媽明天要上班囉, 妳要乖乖跟著爸爸, 越說越想哭, 趕快跟她說了晚安, 把她丟給她爸哄睡...知道自己再待下去就會哭出來了
剛剛餵奶時給她唱了歌, 吃完抱她抱了好久, 捨不得放下, 一直跟她說媽媽明天要上班囉, 妳要乖乖跟著爸爸, 越說越想哭, 趕快跟她說了晚安, 把她丟給她爸哄睡...知道自己再待下去就會哭出來了
娃爸當奶爸的第三天
今天又帶娃出門玩了一天, 圖書館的baby story time, 看到了滿山滿谷的baby, 都是三個月到14個月的. 還遇到一個好久不見的朋友帶她的baby去, 沒想到她的女兒已經13個月了, 比晴大半歲. 又唱歌又轉圈又跳跳玩玩的, 娃雖然累但是高興的硬撐著.
story time又唱歌又念故事又跳又轉的, 晴晴剛開始怕怕的, 後來就高興囉
Florence’s 6 month schedule
5 formula feedings (plus 1 midnight feeding), plus 3 solid food feeding; all times listed is approximate. Be flexible; Try to follow eat -> play -> sleep -> eat pattern
Feed water whenever she wakes up from nap, or has been playing for too long. She needs up to 3~4 oz water in a day.
6:50AM wake up; 1st thing is to let her drink as much warm water as she can take; change diapers; change from sleep sack to sweaters
Breakfast
1st Formula feeding
7:20AM (~30 min after she wakes up): 4 oz
1st Solid food feeding
8 AM (40~50 min after formula feeding): ½ tea cup oatmeal + fruit puree (total ~2 oz)
1st Nap
90 to 120 min from the time she’s awake. Sometimes she would be too tired (get up too early or sleep too late), she may need to nap before 1st solid food feeding. In that case simply reverse the order of the solid food feeding and nap. This nap should be between 30~60 min
Play time after the nap
Lunch
2nd Formula feeding
11AM (+/- 30 min): 4 oz
2nd Solid food feeding
12AM (+/- 30 min): ¾ tea cup rice cereal+ 1 oz Gerber/Earth Best dinner with meat (total ~3 oz)
2nd Nap
This nap in general is around 12 AM (+/- 30 min)– look for tiredness sign. This nap can be right after the 2nd formula feeding or after the 2nd solid food feeding. If she was already tired, let her nap first before feeding her rice cereal. This nap should be between 30~60 min
Play time, Parent’s lunch time
Afternoon Snack
3rd Formula feeding
2:15 PM (+/- 20 min): 4 oz
(Optional)
3:15 PM: 1 to 2 oz freshly expressed apple juice/pear juice
3rd Nap
A two-hour (between 90 min to 150 min) are long nap around 3 PM. She may be showing signs of tiredness earlier on, or if she slept too little in the morning, let her nap earlier.
Dinner
4th Formula feeding
5:40 pm (+/- 15 min): 4 oz
3rd Solid food feeding
6:30 pm: ¾ tea cup rice cereal+ 1 oz Gerber dinner with meat (total ~3 oz)
Try not to feed her after 7pm.
Before sleep
7:50pm: bath, lotioning
5th Formula feeding
8:10pm: 4 oz
Sleep by 8:45pm
Midnight
~11:30pm: 3 oz formula, feed her while asleep
Feed water whenever she wakes up from nap, or has been playing for too long. She needs up to 3~4 oz water in a day.
6:50AM wake up; 1st thing is to let her drink as much warm water as she can take; change diapers; change from sleep sack to sweaters
Breakfast
1st Formula feeding
7:20AM (~30 min after she wakes up): 4 oz
1st Solid food feeding
8 AM (40~50 min after formula feeding): ½ tea cup oatmeal + fruit puree (total ~2 oz)
1st Nap
90 to 120 min from the time she’s awake. Sometimes she would be too tired (get up too early or sleep too late), she may need to nap before 1st solid food feeding. In that case simply reverse the order of the solid food feeding and nap. This nap should be between 30~60 min
Play time after the nap
Lunch
2nd Formula feeding
11AM (+/- 30 min): 4 oz
2nd Solid food feeding
12AM (+/- 30 min): ¾ tea cup rice cereal+ 1 oz Gerber/Earth Best dinner with meat (total ~3 oz)
2nd Nap
This nap in general is around 12 AM (+/- 30 min)– look for tiredness sign. This nap can be right after the 2nd formula feeding or after the 2nd solid food feeding. If she was already tired, let her nap first before feeding her rice cereal. This nap should be between 30~60 min
Play time, Parent’s lunch time
Afternoon Snack
3rd Formula feeding
2:15 PM (+/- 20 min): 4 oz
(Optional)
3:15 PM: 1 to 2 oz freshly expressed apple juice/pear juice
3rd Nap
A two-hour (between 90 min to 150 min) are long nap around 3 PM. She may be showing signs of tiredness earlier on, or if she slept too little in the morning, let her nap earlier.
Dinner
4th Formula feeding
5:40 pm (+/- 15 min): 4 oz
3rd Solid food feeding
6:30 pm: ¾ tea cup rice cereal+ 1 oz Gerber dinner with meat (total ~3 oz)
Try not to feed her after 7pm.
Before sleep
7:50pm: bath, lotioning
5th Formula feeding
8:10pm: 4 oz
Sleep by 8:45pm
Midnight
~11:30pm: 3 oz formula, feed her while asleep
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
娃爸當奶爸的第二天
Tue, March 24
不想看流水帳的就看這段總結:
兩個大人都不用上班, 一起帶娃, 這樣的三個人的日子真的很美妙. 過小日子真是幸福極了. 尤其是在風和日麗的三月天(淡淡的三月天，杜鵑花開在山坡上，杜鵑花開在小溪畔，多美麗啊, 啊啊啊啊啊...ok我知道我夠了), 加州陽光普照卻又不毒艷(晴寶的名字就是這樣來的, 我最愛這種天氣), 娃越來越懂事不瞎鬧肯醒著喝奶乖乖吃輔食只是白天nap還是不盡如意...
不想看流水帳的就看這段總結:
兩個大人都不用上班, 一起帶娃, 這樣的三個人的日子真的很美妙. 過小日子真是幸福極了. 尤其是在風和日麗的三月天(淡淡的三月天，杜鵑花開在山坡上，杜鵑花開在小溪畔，多美麗啊, 啊啊啊啊啊...ok我知道我夠了), 加州陽光普照卻又不毒艷(晴寶的名字就是這樣來的, 我最愛這種天氣), 娃越來越懂事不瞎鬧肯醒著喝奶乖乖吃輔食只是白天nap還是不盡如意...
我也要喝咖啡啦
娃爸當奶爸的第一天
Monday, Mar 23
今天送媽回去了, 四點半回到家娃好好在大床上睡著呢, 娃爸怕她掉下來在旁邊陪睡發呆了近兩個小時...
一整天娃乖得不像話, 不論奶還是輔食每一頓都好好吃. 我們傍晚帶她去家附近散步. 娃爸推著推車, 我挽著他的手, 夕陽斜斜從樹蔭裏灑下來照著人兒暖暖, 幸福也就是這樣了.
今天送媽回去了, 四點半回到家娃好好在大床上睡著呢, 娃爸怕她掉下來在旁邊陪睡發呆了近兩個小時...
一整天娃乖得不像話, 不論奶還是輔食每一頓都好好吃. 我們傍晚帶她去家附近散步. 娃爸推著推車, 我挽著他的手, 夕陽斜斜從樹蔭裏灑下來照著人兒暖暖, 幸福也就是這樣了.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
六個月例行檢查
報告六個月檢查數據
因爲厭奶加好動兩項夾擊, 我們體重從四個月的75%掉到45%了...不出我所料, 16磅都不到.
體重: 15 Lb 10 oz (45%)
身長: 26 inches (55%)
頭圍: 43 cm (65%)
新的兒醫說正常(原來的兒醫去生娃了), 說九個月她預計體重會掉到25%左右, 因爲抽條的緣故( 學了一個新的單字, 抽條叫channeling)...
看她精神不錯, 還是一樣好動, 我告訴自己不要擔心..
以後 請叫我瘦晴媽
因爲厭奶加好動兩項夾擊, 我們體重從四個月的75%掉到45%了...不出我所料, 16磅都不到.
體重: 15 Lb 10 oz (45%)
身長: 26 inches (55%)
頭圍: 43 cm (65%)
新的兒醫說正常(原來的兒醫去生娃了), 說九個月她預計體重會掉到25%左右, 因爲抽條的緣故( 學了一個新的單字, 抽條叫channeling)...
看她精神不錯, 還是一樣好動, 我告訴自己不要擔心..
以後 請叫我瘦晴媽
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